Showing posts with label psychology article. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology article. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Therapeutic model

Posted by Evi Yulianti 12:42 AM, under | 1 comment

Therapeutic model that we can use to help a person break away from addiction or bad behavior and changing their behavior for the better include

Moral Therapy Model

This model is commonly known by the public and is usually done with an approach to religious / moral emphasis on individual sin and weakness. This model is very appropriate therapy as applied to communities that still adhere to religious values ​​and morality in the place of origin, as the model is running in conjunction with the concept of good and bad are taught by religion. So it is not surprising that the therapeutic model that is the foundation of moral justification major legal force to fight against drug abuse.

Monday, April 19, 2010

How To Captivate And Engage Kids

Posted by Evi Yulianti 3:37 AM, under | No comments

Bible stories for kids are the centerpiece of your kids Bible lesson. After all, this is the time to share God's word with your kids. Every component or section of the Bible lesson pivots around it. For these reasons, a significant amount of prayer, thought and attention should be given to your Bible stories for kids.

Anything But Boring!

I was walking by a preschool classroom a few months ago in the church my family attends. I stopped and peeked in the door for a few seconds. What I saw and heard made my heart sink. The teacher was sitting in a chair with about 15 preschoolers (one was my son) sitting around her on the floor. The teacher was reading the Bible story word for word, in a monotone voice, from the curriculum teacher's manual. Listen, God's word is exciting, powerful and alive. It was being delivered as dull, weak and dead! There was no voice inflection, animation or movement. No interaction or eye contact was used with the kids. That is so wrong in so many ways! Bible stories for kids should be anything but boring!

Visuals Rock!

I am known as the Prop Man. I won't do Bible stories for kids, or adults, without using visuals and Bible object lessons. Bible object lessons and visuals bring life, relevancy and understanding to your Bible stories. You could just talk about the importance of keeping in touch with God or why not make it relevant to their world? Pull out a cell phone and relate it to how kids send text messages to their friends each day to keep in touch! Now that hits home! Try to select objects that kids use frequently in their everyday life. Kids stay plugged into your Bible lessons when you keep it current.

Get Creative!

Bible stories for kids should not be read in a dry, boring monotone voice. Try some new methods:

* Use different voices for different characters. Whisper, raise your voice or talk softly as the story flows.
* Use movement - get up, stoop down, creep, run... whatever the story calls for, do it!
* Use puppets, toy figurines, Mr. Potato Heads or any other object to act out the Bible story.
* Use drama - introduce special guests or even better, use the kids to act out the Bible story.
* Use kids to hold props. Kids love to hold signs or any visual aids used to tell the Bible story.

There is no excuse when Bible stories for kids are presented in a boring manner. Pray and allow the Holy Spirit to stir and activate the creativity he put inside of you. Bible stories for kids should be fun, active and engaging... every time

Friday, December 11, 2009

stress and handling

Posted by Evi Yulianti 1:36 AM, under | 3 comments

Human life was marked by efforts to meet the needs, both physically, mentally, emotionally, materially and spiritually. If needs be met with a good balance is achieved and satisfaction. But in reality the business is often the fulfillment of these needs a lot of obstacles and barriers. The pressures and difficulties of life often bring people in a state of stress. Stress can be experienced by all age levels. Stress can be physical, biological and psychological. Disease germs that attack the human body which cause biological stress caused various immune reactions. While psychological stress can be derived from several things that can cause interference sense of peace and balance of life.

Source of Stress

Source of stress can be classified in the forms:
  • Crisis : Crisis is a change / events that occur suddenly and shook the balance of power beyond one's day-to-day adjustments. For example: the crisis in the field of business, family relationships and so on.
  • Frustration : Frustration is the failure of satisfaction of business needs or instinct, causing disappointment. Frutrasi arises when a person intent or effort was blocked by the obstacles (from outside: famine, drought, death, etc., and from within: tired, mentally handicapped, low self-esteem, etc.) that impede the progress of an ideal to want to accomplish.
  • Conflicts : The conflict is a disagreement between the 2 desire / drive that is between the power of instinct and the power that controls impulses instincts.
  • Pressure : Stress can be caused pressure associated with a greater responsibility to bear. (From within ourselves: the ideals, the head of the family, and so on and from the outside: the wife is too demanding, parents who want their children excel).

Due to Stress

Stress depends on the person's reaction to stress. Generally stress caused prolonged feelings of anxiety, fear, depression, loss of sense of security, self-esteem is threatened, anxious, cold sweat, heart palpitations frequently, dizziness, difficult or rather difficult to eat and sleep). Severe anxiety and lasting will lower a person's ability and efficiency in carrying out his functions and may ultimately lead to a variety of mental disorders.

Stress Reduction
  • Know and recognize the sources of stress.
  • Cultivate personality maturity through education and life experience.
  • developing a healthy life. Among others by the way: have enough with what he has, not in a hurry to achieve his desire, to realize the difference between wants and needs.
  • Give thanks to God Almighty for everything that happens to remain faithful to him.
  • Ask for assistance to close friends, people who are more mature, psychologists, spiritual mature person, and so on).
  • Avoid negative attitudes among other things: rebelling against the state, apathy, anger. These things do not solve problems but instead opened a new problem.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

development of teenagers

Posted by Evi Yulianti 3:20 AM, under | No comments

Adolescence is the best time is life, the word is used in the cast by many people. A lot of teenage life is dominated by jokes, laughter, tears, romance and more make a lot of people have a lasting memory in old age until they are. Talking about teenagers, we should know the youth development of the starting phase until the final phase awel.

Adolescent development is divided into several periods of adolescent development, the difficulties that often occur in adolescents and psychological demands of teenagers, following his description.

1. period of development in adolescents.
  • Age 12 - 14 years : At the age of puberty is a pre, means the period beginning from the time puberty children. Characteristic is the Son does not like being treated like a child again and Son began to be critical.
  • age 14-16 years : age is called too early adolescence, characterized erratic manner / wishy washy, began Noting appearance, Start anxious and confused about his physical changes, more like grouped with peers and in the same boat and start having wet dreams.
  • age 17-18 years : age period is the transition period of puberty to abdolesen. Another characteristic of the physical growth has started to mature, but the psychological maturity is not reached full maturity and process the body of teenage girls earlier than boys.
  • age 19-21 years : at the age of 19 to 21 years is the maturation phase of the late teens or teenagers. Characterized closed attention to the things realistic, Start aware of the realities of life and attitude about life began to clear and the Start of talent and interest appears.
2. psychological demands of the teens
  • Teenagers can receive physical condition and able to use it effectively
  • Teenagers can gain emotional freedom from other people
  • Teenagers can hang out with sesame mature teens
  • Knowing and accepting capable of self -
  • Strengthening of self-control on the basis of values and norms
3. some of the difficulties experienced by adolescents is a normal part of adolescent development. Some of the difficulties or dangers that may be experienced by adolescents, among others
  • Variations psychiatric condition, referring to a teenager can be seen as quiet, sullen, and exile, but at other times he seems otherwise happy and radiant and optimistic.
  • Curiosity about sex and wanted to try it
  • Ditching school
  • Anti-social behavior such as love disturbing, often lie and more aggressive
  • Illicit drug abuse, drugs and so forth.
By knowing the adolescent period of development and some of the difficulties and demands of our teenagers make better understand what is expected by adolescents and may prevent the negativ things that can occur during adolescence.